Assertiveness
a visit to a company and there was the opportunity he needed to bring a new attitude.
While waiting to be served could hear, unwittingly, this warning, even to say that I found a lecture full of crueldad.En the time the secretary handed him a letter, the chief, to read, shouted, "this letter is full of errors, badly worded, do not think you can continue here. " Naturally, she put a thousand colors and left with tears in my skin.
The boss thought he had assumed his role and looked at us with an air of complacency, without thinking of the damage. No doubt this man will have to be assertive.
was undoubtedly necessary to correct and if not eligible for that office to withdraw it and it was time to say that neither she nor anyone deserved such insult. At that time there had to be used where appropriate words to defend their rights while respecting hers.
That is what assertiveness is closely related to self-esteem and the way we behave. We are part of a company, so we live in a constant relationship with others. To be assertive or not good depends on our social relations.
We can defend our rights without harming others, knowing when, why, how and where we can respond in a given situation.
Assertiveness is not only able to answer, but finding the best way to convey what we feel. We are not born being assertive is something that we as we move forward in life and we are lucky to realize that we can defend our rights without violating the rights of others.
Assertiveness is to manage our emotions and to take getting a particular situation in a responsible manner. There are many definitions have been given this wonderful word, but I am left with this: "Assertiveness is respected yourself, respect others to be direct but honest and appropriate, emotional balance. Knowing that and knowing how to listen" Nelly Guerrero
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